In feng shui classes, students often ask: “What happens if I know my place has a feng shui problem, but I cannot change anything structurally (as often it is a rental), nor can I move out any time soon?” My answer often is: “When you cannot do “anything”, there is always “one thing” you still can do: that is acceptance.”
This answer sounds as if we are avoiding the question. Yet it does have significant meaning to our life. We find it hard to accept things that are negative, imperfect, defeats us and so on. Life is full of imperfections and the inevitability of those imperfections is hard to accept. Accepting the reality of the moment does not mean sticking to that moment. To accept the reality of the present situation does not mean being limited by it; it means knowing the place from where one must start, and once that is known, the next thing to do is to begin the new journey. And then you know, in due time, things will change.
The United States has been fighting the war in Afghanistan for 8 years and although with 68,000 troops stationed there, we are slowing losing control. Gen Stanley McChrystal requested a troop surge of a minimum of 40,000; stating, otherwise, the U.S. will be defeated. Even with that surge, he also knows the U.S. will not win the war in years to come. As President Obama continues to ponder the strategy, he is clearly aware of what is at stake. Regardless of hunting Al-Qaida, protecting Afghans are the reason we cannot withdraw. The fundamental reason to stop us to consider a withdrawal is: we cannot accept defeat, yet we could admit we made a mistake even as early as 2001 when the US invaded Afghanistan.
The rampant Hamid Karzai government’s corruption, the wide spread fraud in the August 20th president election, should be seen as the kindness of “Heaven” to inform the U.S. to learn the lesson of acceptance. Afghan has a long history, much longer than the United States. Beneath the poverty and misery, its people are imbedded with wisdom, pride, strength and tenacity from their deep culture. They do not need our protection. It takes wisdom and courage of our new and young president to learn the lesson of the Divine Acceptance; the teaching from the ancient Chinese saint Lao-Tzu, and the lesson from our all accepting Mother Earth.
Accept the train to enter the station, otherwise it cannot move on to the next station.
